Saturday, October 20, 2012

Autumn Tree at Sunrise

Taken at Dad's this morning.
A beautiful sight to carry with me back to Florida.


Friday, October 19, 2012

SCARY

What dark and dreary dungeon is this where cobwebs do drape and dangle?

What forsaken fortress doth lie in such forlorn neglect?

What horrors await within this hoary web of......

Wait a minute. This is right here in Dad's cellar.
Never mind.

(We really do sweep them away.  They come back so fast!  Might as well leave them up for Halloween now!)


P.S. Don't tell Dad I posted this. 

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Saturday, October 13, 2012

Life With Dad


I am watching my dad out the window.  He is raking leaves.  He is 93.

First he went over the whole yard on his lawn tractor pulling some sort of leaf collecting attachment.  He has dumped several loads of the collected leaves in piles around the yard and now he has to do something with them.  So he has brought out his trusty ‘cardboard sled’ that he invented.  It is a huge piece of heavy cardboard made from a refrigerator shipping box (from his brother’s appliance store), flattened out and fitted with a board across one end with a rope handle attached to it.   He rakes the leaf piles onto the cardboard sled and then pulls the loaded sled with his tractor off toward the back of the property where they end up I don’t know where.  Then he returns to rake more piles onto the sled.   He’s very methodical.  He will do this as long as it takes.  And it’s cold out there.

 I love watching my dad do stuff like this.  Yesterday I watched him harvest his acorn squash out of his garden.  He leaves the winter squashes on the vine as long as he can, because they keep better that way, even though the vine looks dead.  Then finally when the weatherman forecasts the first frost, Dad goes out and harvests the squash.  This is a yearly ritual.  Sometimes the harvest happens in the dark of night because he hasn’t heard about the frost until the evening news, so he goes out there with flashlight and basket and rescues them just in the nick of time.  I am glad he did it in daylight this time.  He is sorely disappointed because he bought seed for butternut squash and instead it came up acorn.  Just not the same.  I love to see those butternut squash all huddled together in the wheelbarrow after he has picked them.  If you can picture these flesh-colored squash all piled up together, you will understand why he calls them his ‘bare naked babies’.  Anyway, no babies this year.  Just these dark green things.  That’s okay.  They taste good too. 

 I imagine when he’s done with his leaf project he’ll come back inside and read the paper for awhile.  He goes to the corner chair next to the window and reads until pretty soon I hear ‘crunch’………’crunch’………..’crunch’………as the paper slowly lowers into his lap and his eyelids close.  He calls this his ‘news snooze’.  But when he comes back fully awake afterward, he will do the word jumble.  He does the word jumble every day to keep his mind from going soft.  (Or words to that effect.)  And just to challenge himself a little more, he doesn’t write anything down.  He does it all in his head.  Holy moly, I gotta tell ya, if he can do THAT, his mind’s a lot firmer than mine. I always know when he’s working on the jumble because I catch him slunked way down in the chair, one leg crossed over the other, staring into space.   Thinkin’.   

 So these are just a few glimpses into life with Dad.  I admire him so much.  He does what needs doing around here, but all in good time.  What’s the rush?  Read a little paper, watch a little TV, eat a little dinner, take a little nap, play a little organ, play a little saxophone, exercise a little, take a little nap…(yeah, I know I already said that).

 I’m ashamed to admit it, but after seeing him do all that work, I think I’m ready for a nap.